How to Make AI Write Like YOU: The Secret to Personal, Authentic Content that will stand the test of time and bring you into the future
Blog by Peter Hanley, coachhanley,com
Let’s be honest here – we’ve all been there. You ask AI to write something for you, and what comes back sounds like it was written by a robot having a particularly bland day. Generic phrases, corporate speak, and absolutely zero personality.
Meanwhile, you’re thinking, “This doesn’t sound anything like me!” And you’re absolutely right. But here’s the thing – it’s not AI’s fault. It’s simply doing what you asked it to do with the information you gave it.
Today, I’m going to show you how to transform AI from a generic content machine into your personal writing assistant that actually captures your unique voice. The secret? Stories and hurdles.
Why Generic AI Content Falls Flat
First, let’s talk about why most AI-generated content sounds so… well, boring. When you give AI a simple prompt like “write a blog post about email marketing,” it falls back on what it knows best – general information that applies to everyone and offends no one.
However, this approach creates a massive problem. Your readers aren’t looking for generic advice they can find anywhere else. They’re looking for YOUR perspective, YOUR experiences, and YOUR unique take on the subject.
Furthermore, generic content doesn’t build trust or connection with your audience. People don’t buy from faceless corporations – they buy from people they know, like, and trust. Therefore, injecting personality into your AI-generated content isn’t just nice to have; it’s essential for success.
The Power of Personal Stories in AI Prompts
Now, let’s dive into the game-changer: personal stories. When you feed AI your specific experiences, something magical happens. Instead of generic advice, you get content that reflects your actual journey.
For instance, instead of asking AI to “write about the importance of persistence in business,” try this approach:
“Write about persistence in business, but include my story about how I failed at three different online businesses before finding success with affiliate marketing. Mention how I almost gave up after losing $5,000 on my second attempt, but my wife encouraged me to try one more time. Make it conversational and relate it to how readers might be feeling right now.”
See the difference? Suddenly, AI has rich material to work with. It can weave your personal experience throughout the content, making it uniquely yours.
Moreover, stories create emotional connections. When readers see that you’ve struggled with the same problems they’re facing, they immediately feel understood. Consequently, they’re more likely to trust your advice and take action on your recommendations.
Adding Hurdles Creates Authentic Relatability
Similarly, sharing your hurdles and obstacles makes your content incredibly relatable. Everyone faces challenges, but most content creators only share their wins. This creates an unrealistic picture that can actually discourage readers.
However, when you’re honest about your struggles, something beautiful happens. Your audience thinks, “Finally, someone who gets it!” They see you as a real person rather than some untouchable guru.
For example, when writing about productivity, instead of a generic approach, try this:
“Write about productivity tips, but mention how I used to be terrible at time management. Include the story about how I once spent an entire day ‘researching’ and accomplished nothing. Talk about how I felt like a fraud giving productivity advice when my own desk was a mess. Then share the three simple changes that turned everything around.”
This approach accomplishes several things simultaneously. It shows vulnerability, creates connection, and makes your eventual success more credible and achievable.
The Formula: Context + Story + Emotion + Lesson
Additionally, here’s a simple formula you can use to make any AI prompt more personal:
Context: Set the scene for your story Story: Share what actually happened to you Emotion: Describe how it made you feel Lesson: Explain what you learned or how you overcame it
For instance: “Write about overcoming fear of failure. Include my story about being afraid to launch my first product because I was worried people would think it was stupid (context + emotion). Describe how I finally launched it at 2 AM because I couldn’t sleep anyway (story), and how getting my first sale the next morning taught me that action cures fear better than planning ever could (lesson).”
This formula ensures your AI-generated content always has that personal touch that resonates with readers.
Making It Conversational: Tone and Style Tips
Furthermore, the way you prompt AI for tone makes a huge difference. Instead of letting AI default to its formal style, be specific about how you want to sound.
Try adding phrases like:
- “Write this like I’m talking to a friend over coffee”
- “Use a conversational tone, like I’m giving advice to my younger brother”
- “Make it sound encouraging but honest, like a mentor who’s been there”
Likewise, don’t forget to mention your specific phrases or words. If you always say “here’s the thing” or “let me be honest with you,” tell AI to include these. These small touches make content sound unmistakably like you.
Putting It All Together: Your Action Plan
Now that you understand the principles, here’s how to implement this immediately:
Step 1: Before writing your next prompt, think of a relevant personal experience Step 2: Include specific details – names, feelings, mistakes, and lessons Step 3: Specify your desired tone and any signature phrases Step 4: Ask AI to weave your story throughout the content naturally
Remember, the goal isn’t to share every personal detail, but to give AI enough authentic material to create content that truly sounds like you.
Your Voice, Amplified
Finally, here’s what I want you to remember: AI isn’t replacing your voice – it’s amplifying it. When you feed it your stories, your struggles, and your personality, it becomes a powerful tool for sharing your authentic message with the world.
The difference between generic AI content and personal, engaging content isn’t the technology – it’s the human touch you bring to the prompts. So start sharing those stories, embrace those hurdles, and watch as AI helps you create content that truly connects with your audience.
Your experiences matter. Your struggles matter. And when you share them authentically – even through AI – you’ll be amazed at how much more your content resonates with the people who need to hear your message most.
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